STRONGER
When
life beats you harder than you can take; you have to be STRONGER.
S-
STRAIGHTEN YOURSELF UP
T-TALK!
R-
REFRESH YOURSELF
O-OPEN
UP
N-
NEVER STOP TRYING
G-
GROW UP
E-
EXERCISE YOUR HOPE
R-
REBIRTH
S-
STRAIGHTEN YOURSELF UP
Stop
wallowing in self-pity. Accept it! It might be very hard but it would help you.
Do not think about it all the time, instead of looking at the problem look out
for a thing beyond the problem. Remember that there is nothing that has a
beginning and does not have an end. Do not allow people
Give names to your problem.
Tell you the end of your problem because they
do not have that right.
Show
you impossibility.
Instead
of that, you should show them the end of your problem and give names to your
own problem.
T-
TALK!
Talking
is not just about saying the problem out or soliloquizing and saying it to the
wrong person. It is about expressing yourself in whichever way you can, you could express yourself by writing,
drawing, painting or whichever way you can. A young lady who lost her ability
to walk started painting in the hospital, she was able to express herself and
her artwork took her places her legs might not have been able to take her to.
R-
REFRESH YOURSELF
How
do you refresh yourself? Well, you refresh yourself by doing things that
relaxes your mind. You could travel, take a short walk, go jogging, sleep well,
eat or read. Just do something that makes you feel relaxed. Whenever I feel so
down , I love to write and it gets me relaxed. It is better to look for what
makes you relaxed because it would really help you.
O-
OPEN UP
I
remember when my father walked out on us, my mum lost the only source of income
she had. It was a real tough time for us in the family but I was able to get
over brooding and wallowing in my problems by talking to God, trust me I was
very angry at him because I felt I did not deserve to go through all that.
After talking to God, I discovered that my mess was meant to be a message to others
later in the future. Though it was not easy back then, I can say I am grateful
now. However, after talking to God, I was able to talk to a woman who really
helped me tom understand a lot back then. I was able to go and scale through my
problems because I opened up to the right people. Don’t bottle up your
feelings, open up to someone.
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NEVER GIVE UP
The
first thing that comes to the mind of many people when life beats them down is
to give up because they failed once. So? You are not the first to fail in life
and you are not going to be the last. In fact, the real failure is when you
give up and stop trying. Don’t give up on life, the next thing is not to commit
suicide or sit around moping over your problems. Giving up or quitting is not
an option for you, the only option you’ve got is to keep on trying. A very
good friend of mine tried to gain admission into the university for 8 years
before his prayers were answered and he is doing exploits now. Do not stop
trying! Never give up!
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GATHER THE PIECES
After
whatever happened to you, life can never remain the same and you cannot regain
some things back but there’s one thing you can do, you could gather the pieces
remaining and build up something. It is not over until you say it is.
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EXERCISE YOUR HOPE
This
is the right time to exercise your hope, the time to believe in yourself and
God. To learn more about hope, just click here.
R-
REBIRTH
This doesn't mean you have to be a new person
entirely but it means a stronger and more experienced person has been born. You
know better than you did before the incident which gives you your rebirth. You
should not be worse than you were before but be better than you were.
I
hope we learnt from this, remember you are perfect the way you are, but you can
be better. read similar posts like this
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